3 Compliments Every Man Wants To Hear
Jan 24, 2020
Today is National Compliment Day! Woop woop.
To celebrate the occasion, I wanted to share with you 3 compliments that every man wants to hear:
1) "YOU'RE DOING GREAT"
Men gauge their own sense of value based on their ability to accomplish tasks. When it's going well, he feels like he can take on the world. When it's not going well, he feels like a failure. What he craves most is encouragement. By telling him "you're doing great", it shows that you acknowledge his efforts and believe in his abilities.
2) "I'M SO PROUD OF YOU"
Men want to feel like their work is meaningful. He wants to feel like he's contributing and doing the right thing. Whether he's working on a project, a business, a hobby or an interest. By saying "I'm so proud of you", it let him know that you respect and support his mission, whatever that may be.
3) "IF ANYONE CAN DO IT, IT'S YOU"
Men measure themselves against their abilities. Although he may not show it, he doubts...
Avoid This HUGE Mistake
Jan 22, 2020
Dating is complex. Today, there are many pitfalls preventing women from finding and attracting their ideal man. Over the years, I've seen it all. However, there is one mistake that tops the list.
The mistake: Going on a small handful of dates and getting attached to one guy who is incompatible.
I see it all too often. There are two reasons why this mistake is so destructive:
1) LIMITED CHOICE
It's uncommon that you'll meet the right guy by going on a handful of dates. Let's assume that only 1 in 25 guys is compatible. By only going on a handful of dates you restrict yourself to a small slice of the cake. Dating is a numbers game. The more guys you can connect with, the better your chances of finding someone suitable.
2) TIME
What makes this mistake so destructive is time. I've met women who have spent up to a year trying to convince the wrong guy. Time is our most precious...
5 Not So Obvious Signs He Likes You
Jan 22, 2020
It's tricky knowing if a guy's into you. Men show their feelings in different ways. Here are five not so obvious signs that he likes you:
1) HE'S CHECKING YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA
When it comes to attraction, men are extremely visual. If he likes you, he will want to see you. If he watches all your stories and likes your photos, it's a positive sign that he's attracted to you. If he likes you a lot, he will be looking at your social media constantly.
2) HE WANTS TO IMPRESS YOU
A man's self-worth is linked to his own abilities. This is how he measures himself and others around him. If he likes you, he will want to let you know of these accomplishments (whether it's subtle or not). If he likes you, he will talk about the sale he closed, the promotion he got or the record he broke.
3) HE GETS NERVOUS AROUND YOU
You may have noticed that men have delicate egos. A man's...
3 Things All Men Want In A Relationship
Jan 22, 2020
Over the years, I've made it my mission to understand what men value most in a relationship. Having asked hundreds of guys the same question, it always comes down to the same three factors. Here are the three most common things men want in a relationship:
1) TO FEEL SUPPORTED
I get it, we all need support, but men need support in a different way. As men, we fear being incompetent. We worry that we're failing in our jobs and relationships. Furthermore, we find it difficult to articulate these worries. This means that men rarely ask for support. To feel supported, a man doesn't want you to solve his problems. A man needs encouragement, praise, and confidence that he's capable of getting the job done.
2) TO FEEL LIKE A WINNER
A man’s happiness is dependent on whether he feels like he’s winning in life. This includes his job, business, hobbies, and relationships. A man will swing on a...
7 Tips For Improving Your Dating Profile Photos
Jan 21, 2020
Photos create 90% of the action online. This is why it's so important to get your snaps right. Here are 7 tips on how you can get the BEST photos for your dating profile:
1) CREATE VARIETY
Your photos allow you to show how you appear, your lifestyle and your personality. For the best engagement, your profile needs 5 types of photos. This includes a close-up photo, a full body photo, a social photo, an action photo and a random photo. This variety will give him a compelling insight into you and your life.
2) USE COLOUR
Try to include photos that include bright natural colours. It may be the colour of your clothes or the colour of the background. Online dating moves fast so use bright colours to grab his attention.
3) FIND GOOD LIGHTING
Lighting will make or break a photo. You want to avoid both brightness and darkness. Photos taken in...
