3 Things All Men Want In A Relationship
Jan 22, 2020
Over the years, I've made it my mission to understand what men value most in a relationship. Having asked hundreds of guys the same question, it always comes down to the same three factors. Here are the three most common things men want in a relationship:
1) TO FEEL SUPPORTED
I get it, we all need support, but men need support in a different way. As men, we fear being incompetent. We worry that we're failing in our jobs and relationships. Furthermore, we find it difficult to articulate these worries. This means that men rarely ask for support. To feel supported, a man doesn't want you to solve his problems. A man needs encouragement, praise, and confidence that he's capable of getting the job done.
2) TO FEEL LIKE A WINNER
A man’s happiness is dependent on whether he feels like he’s winning in life. This includes his job, business, hobbies, and relationships. A man will swing on a pendulum of feeling great when he's winning, to feeling depressed when he's not. In a relationship, he wants someone who understands his goals and will make him feel like a winner every day.
3) TO HAVE FUN
Men are big kids. When it comes to relationships, they live in the moment. A man rarely thinks about the progress of the relationship or where things are going. Instead, he measures the success of the relationship on whether you are both happy. He wants a relationship where he can switch off, have fun, celebrate wins and enjoy life.
